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RAIN is a 4-step tool for practising mindfulness and compassion in difficult times.
This is a quick mindfulness practice presented in An Introduction to Coping with Post-Traumatic Stress by Ann Wetmore, 2ndedn, London: Robinson, 2019
Use your five senses to focus your attention in the present moment.
Translated by Coleman Barks
This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing,
and invite them in.
Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.
Traumatic Stress by Ann Wetmore, 2nd edn, London: Robinson, 2019)
With each complete breath, you will notice that the air is reaching more deeply into your lungs, and feels like it is going further down into your belly. Your breathing rate by the end is probably slower, and your heart rate has likely stopped racing.
Use the Count to Calm Breathing Method whenever you notice that you are getting tense or anxious, or struggling to manage your feelings in different situations. Just three complete breaths with this method are enough to help you clear your head and gain a bit more control over your reactions in the moment.
(This is a self-management technique, not an avoidance strategy. It does not mean that your issues are resolved, or that you don’t have to face what is upsetting you, just that you can be less overwhelmed by anxious thoughts and able to think more clearly.)
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